Bitch Dom as Wall

… mixing my father’s, mother’s, and my own behavior into a single person, the Bitch Dom rises out of my subconscious, rules (so often anyway) my jacking fantasies …

… so I can maintain the illusion that my CSA humiliation and other CSA-related suffering as an infant, toddler, had a reason—to please the Bitch Dom—and that there was an awareness and intentionality behind them instead of their being, as they were, the result of my parents’ blindness (my father’s thinking he wasn’t actually abusing me; my mother not seeing or turning a blind eye to my father’s abusing me), over which I had no control …

Jacking Update

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Woke from sleep with a code red urge to jack; no worries as I keep the calendula oil close at hand and proceeded to jack forthwith to the usual fantasies – the Bitch Dom easily seducing me with her perfect body, perfect allure; the Bitch Dom applying the calendula to my nipples, breasts, cock in copious dollops; the Bitch Dom licking, stroking my nipples, cock to max-hardness; the Bitch Dom, in a state of lactation, breast-feeding me until my thirst for her milk is completely satisfied … and with, as has been happening more frequently lately, the Ice-Bitch-Melts variant of the Bitch Dom herself losing control as we fuck, the two of us coming together …

The resonance, as usual, with what I strongly suspect may have been the situation from my earliest infancy, into and through my toddler-hood: my father sexually abusing me in the various ways I remember him doing from the earliest remembered incident when I was three or four; my mother beautiful, attractive to me, but unaware her husband, my father, was abusing me, or, at least, suppressing her awareness, minimizing it to something close to zero; my mother, according to one of her letters from about ten or fifteen years ago, having breast-fed me for only two weeks and then stopping because she didn’t have enough milk (which I suspect was due to her having, a la mode for the 1950s, fed me on a strict time schedule, which according to Internet research, as such strict scheduling contravenes natural cycles of milk production and consumption between mother and child, can easily render a mother’s milk supplies inadequate); my experience with, perception of my mother having, on some levels, been sexualized – more than an infant, toddler’s experience of their mother would normally be – by my father’s sexual abuse; and blah blah blah blah blah blah blah …

And the usual questions:
– Do the Bitch Dom fantasies, in some way, form some sort of protective barrier, or, at least, moderating buffer, between my present consciousness and any suppressed or compartmentalized (or however you want to term it) memories that may be lurking in my subconscious of the complete hell of what the actual situation must have been like if my above-noted suspicions regarding my infant- and toddler-hood home environment – with respect to the effect of my father’s sexual abuse, my mother’s inability to respond effectively to such abuse, etc. – are correct?
– Can these fantasies as well as my indulging them (to the extent that I intentionally indulge them – so strong is their allure, when jacking, that I often feel little or no control over having them) and my otherwise focusing on them in these postings and otherwise in my thoughts help provide a path in my life to greater freedom, or do these fantasies simply help to keep me stuck with baggage it might be better, in one sense or another, to let go of?
– And so on …

Jacking / Self-Pleasuring Update

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(Advocating a Jack-Positive Lifestyle for the Greater Tokyo-Yokohama Area and Beyond)
Sex at Noon:
Jacked / Self-Pleasured to a common fantasy in my recent jacking: Not the Bitch Dom so much – that is to say, with Bitch Dom-like thought pulses / imaginings limited – but simply, for the most part, a beautiful, highly seductive woman . . . who brings me to her place, works out her perfect body in the nude, or wearing the briefest of panties, on her gym equipment; her breasts having just the size, the bounce I find most attractive . . . applies the calendula oil copiously to my breasts, penis, massaging, stroking . . . then straddles me in the arm-less chair I’m sitting in and breast-feeds me (she’s lactating just for me) until I’ve had my fill (this resonating, I strongly suspect, with my mother’s ceasing her breast-feeding of my when I was two weeks old, if I recall correctly what my mother wrote about this in a letter; her stoppage due, I suspect, to her having, I suspect, fed me on a time schedule, which was all rage in the 50s but which some Internet searching indicates can rapidly lead to a mother’s running out of milk, antagonistic as such scheduling is to whatever natural feeding rhythms a mother and her baby might otherwise develop) . . . then places herself over my penis, let’s me inside her . . . the woman in this fantasy not ice-bitching, affect-less, like the Bitch Dom, but, rather, feeling pleasure equal to mine – exquisite pleasure as we bring each other to orgasm . . . then the equally or even more exquisite fall-off as the endorphins – sweet endorphins! – fully kick in . . .

Jacking … Self-Pleasuring Update

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Jacked …, no, make that “self-pleasured” — and a fantastic jack … self-pleasuring it was! — to some of the usual and some atypical (for me) fantasies; that is, to a Bitch Dom hybrid — the hybrid aspect being a RLW (Real Live Woman), a certain K, whose lithe, fit body I find quite attractive (I happen to find various aspects of her personality quite attractive as well), the hybrid possessed of full, firm, lactating breasts which provided me with an ample quantity of mother’s milk even as I fucked her, bringing her to the heights of orgasmic ecstasy as well as myself — a, yes, reciprocal giving and partaking of erotic pleasure, decidedly different from the usual one-way (with the Bitch Dom toying with me, bringing me to orgasm while remaining, all along, in Ice Bitch mode) Bitch Dom fantasy.

Bitch Dom Blend

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Jacked at dusk to a blend of the Bitch Dom, up to her usual Dom antics, and one or more women I know.

But this dose of reality, as it were, when it came, this jack, to the objects of my jacking fantasy only served to point up (or perhaps “point down” would be the better term in this case) a significant cause for concern regarding any actual sexual interaction with another actual human being that may (however low the odds may be, I always like to think in terms, at least, of “may” than “no way”) be in the offing, said cause of concern being a decidedly unacceptable degree (anything worse than 10% softer than rock hard is, in my book, cause for serious concern and anything worse than 30% softer risks being too soft for penetration) of flaccidity.

This evening’s jack bordered, I would estimate, on 50% — hardly enough, though it was just barely enough, to reach an insipid cum.

What dietary changes do I need to make?! Vitamins to take?! Attitudinal changes to adopt?! Or was it the Bitch Dom blend effect that caused most or all of the softness? When it comes to jacking hardness, has it come to 100% B D fantasies or no, or very little, go at all? I hope not, but as long as the hardness can be fully sufficient with actual women I don’t need any B D blend at all.